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Teen Beauty Queen Extols Virtues of Diversity at RJK Middle School

March 2009

RJK Middle School students with Miss Teen InternationalWhen Robert J. Kaiser Middle School guidance counselor Karen Warden heard about the desire of Miss Teen New York International, Ariana Kaminski, to spread her philosophy on “Appreciating Diversity,” she knew the students at her school RJK students would be a receptive audience. In a partnership with Home & Careers teacher Karen Mahoney, she invited Ms. Kaminski to speak.

Adorned with her official sash and tiara, the petite young beauty queen gave a presentation to the RJK students about the importance of respecting one another and respecting the differences between people. She spoke of the shortsightedness of judging someone by their appearance and how by getting to know someone is really the only way to understand who they are. She spoke about her own experiences being from a racially mixed family - her dad is Caucasian and her mother is African-American – and how when she was younger, she wasn’t popular in school because she didn’t fit in. She explained how even today, she’s not allowed to visit the home of one of her best friends because her friend’s parents “don’t like black people.”

During her presentation, Ariana engaged in an intense conversation about the diverse community that comprises Monticello Schools and how life is more interesting because everyone is not exactly alike. Students participated in a question-and-answer session and shared their experiences about discrimination and bullying. One 8th grader explained how she was nervous when she first came to the middle school from the Rutherford Elementary School and how she thought the students who were from Chase and Duggan Elementary Schools wouldn’t be nice to her - now, some of her best friends are from those schools. Another student explained how she is teased by her peers because she’s a vegetarian. While yet another student recounted a tale of bullying based on her religious beliefs.

As the discussions continued, the students agreed that although stereotyping, prejudice and discrimination exists, it is something that everyone should try to overcome.

Click here to read this story as it appeared in the Times Herald-Record.

Photo: RJK Middle School students Nicole Nitoli, Brianna Cruz, Chaya Barash and Anthony Simpson flank 15-year-old Miss Teen New York International Ariana Kaminski.